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Things to do with Little Ones During Older Kids’ Activities

By Shannen Espelien 8 Comments

Things to do with little ones during older kids' activities - www.MiddleWayMom.com My little ones haven’t gotten a lot of attention on the blog lately, but they aren’t forgotten about in real life! While Care Bear is studying for a CLEP or DSST exam, going to fencing practice, or at her Biology study group, they have to be cared for. Just like with anything else in homeschooling, it isn’t always easy, but there are some fun ways to keep them content and occupied.

Fill the play meter

Even though the little ones in my life can’t tell me exactly what they need throughout the week, I’ve learned I need to make sure their “play meters” are filled up when we need to do something that requires them to be quiet. Tulip, now 9 months old, can’t be expected to sit quietly and color or read a book, but I can try to make sure she isn’t bored before we get somewhere.

Separate

Yes, Care Bear gets time separated from the little ones throughout her school day while we are all at home, but I’ve also signed up Little Miss for a preschool class twice a week at the mosque. A three hour class means Care Bear gets a solid four hours of quiet alone time. This has proved to be very rewarding for my teen.

Toy bag

I have a two bags: one with art supplies and other things we can do when we have a table, water supply, etc., and another one I grab just to have toys along at any given activity. The art supply bag has play-doh, paints, old spice bottles with shoe laces (for lacing), marbles, paper, etc. For the toy bag, when I know I won’t have any place to use stuff from the art bag, I just grab a random assortment of toys from around the house, along with tupperware and wooden spoons or other fun things to play with.

Think ahead

When I need to bring Little Miss and Tulip along with to Care Bear’s fencing practice, I know the places nearby that have toys available, and what places don’t. If I need to bring them often, like when Hubby has work to do, I will switch it up to the various places. Know where there are parks, coffee shops with toys, or even a nice department store you can wander around.

Set expectations

Little Miss is old enough to understand some direction, and to understand “later.” She knows that we can do something later, after she has been nice and cooperated with the current activity. All expectations have to be reasonable and age appropriate, of course, but it’s a good time to start learning proper behavior in certain situations.

Food!

A hungry kid is a crabby kid! Err on the side of over packing, if you must. Admittedly, I’m terrible at remembering to bring food along and we end up spending twice as much money picking up something easy rather than just packing snacks or a lunch in the first place. So, do as I say and not as I do. 🙂

How do you keep your little ones happy while an older kid has things to do?

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Comments

  1. Shecki says

    January 6, 2014 at 11:59 pm

    I’m terrible about packing snacks, too. You’d think after 22 years of parenting it would sink in… I guess I don’t get out often enough, because I never remember unless we’re going to be gone across lunch time.

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    • Shannen Espelien says

      January 7, 2014 at 11:11 am

      Haha! It’s hard enough to get out the door, and then snacks? My teenager is my right hand when it comes to getting us ready to go. 🙂

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  2. Mekka from Russia says

    January 7, 2014 at 3:17 pm

    Assalamu aleikum, sisters! I have an elder son 5,5 y.o. and a younger son 1,5 y.o., who always prevent his brother doing my tasks… he wrest a pen, draw on the list with tasks and elder son cry ))) little one become very angry too, when elder one hide and do his tasks…

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    • Shannen Espelien says

      January 7, 2014 at 3:22 pm

      Walaykum assalam, It can be really tough with little ones being so curious. Each little child is different. Sometimes snacks help, or having a small activity to complete, or doing activities together before starting with the older child. In time, both will be older and it will get easier, in sha Allah.

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  3. Theres Just One Mommy says

    January 7, 2014 at 9:13 pm

    Great tips! Definitely remember the snacks when taking the little ones out and about!

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    • Shannen Espelien says

      January 7, 2014 at 9:58 pm

      Thanks for stopping by! Yes, snacks can be a make or break deal for how successful an outing can be. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Jill says

    January 12, 2014 at 6:41 pm

    Never forget snacks, juice boxes or small bottles of water, this is my mantra!
    Thanks for the great tips!

    Thank you for stopping by the Thoughtful Spot Weekly Blog Hop this week. We hope to see you drop by our neck of the woods next week!

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    • Shannen Espelien says

      January 12, 2014 at 7:08 pm

      Always a pleasure to link up with so many fabulous mamas! Thanks for hosting (and sending out reminder emails) each week!

      Reply

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